What can i do help me?

i live in USA.i love my bf vey much but my parents said no to me because of diffrent cast and me and my bf decide do court marrige but now they just find one boy for me in USA and my bf is in India so i can't do anything right now beause my bf is in india and i'm in USA. we will do marriage after i go to india , but my parents and my aunt were saying that boy that they find for me here is good looking guys and i can't say anthing infront of them and also i scared that they don't forsc me or or don't do anything that i have to say yes to that guys. i really want to marry with my bf i can't live with out him..and he also can't live with out me..what should i do in this situation..the problem is i'm in USA and he is in India. i can't do anything from here. we can do everything when we both r together but that thing impossible unthil may.And i have to give answer to that guy that my parent found for me. what can i do...pls help..